If in your Case ?

Posted: Fri Dec 29, 2006 9:34 am

Man who runs into another woman's arms, just before we say our vows has proved to me something is wrong with our relationship.
Here is someone who cannot control his desires.
He is not a child. So He better not tell me *the devil made him do it*

Especially in this day and age..there is a saying, when you sleep with someone, you are sleeping with every person that person has slept with.
Why put me at risk if you love me?

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Amen.

Posted: Fri Dec 29, 2006 9:19 pm

While I accept that for some they may only misbehave once, time has shown that those who go on to wed,end up with a partner who is a habitual adulterer. Divorce is very expensive, and in the mean time you are getting more and more hurt and abused mentally and physically.

Even if the man/woman is not one to strike you physically, in actual fact your body and mind are being beaten to a pulp. Who wants to be depressed and traumatised for life?

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Not that I'm all for divorce...............but dang!!!!! the day before the wedding?

A lot of women make the mistake of thinking: "it won't happen again" but it sometimes does; and if it doesn't, I don't want to spend the rest of my life or marriage not being able to trust you!

What was going through your mind (if a "mind" exists), that would make a man do something like that?

I know there are guys out there who will say: "it was a hooker" or " I was drunk", or the classic: "somebody set me up!".

The "hooker" excuse we're not even going to touch!

The drinking: if you drink to the point that you can't control yourself, you need to quit!

The somebody set me up: you need to change your friends or lose the ones that set you up! 'Cuz with friend like that you don't need enemies!

Posted: Fri Dec 29, 2006 11:24 pm

That's exactly where I am coming from.

Once that seed of deceit has been planted, only a tree of mistrust and insecurity will grow.
You don't plant bad seeds and expect a crop of fine fruits come harvest time.

{Copyright SisiPancake 12/29/06}