Why Liberian men so (COUNTRY) in bed?

Virgin Poster Joined: Oct 11, 2005 Posts: 3

Yes I use the word COUNTRY because Liberian men are still stuck in the routine.

They Say:

Baby wat U cook fo me today....refusing to take his lady for dinner and a rendezvous in the park. try to be spontaneous and open-minded

Baby tak ou your cloth nah.....not appreciating the sexy and expensive teddy his woman bought from V. S...Men in case you are in tune it's call victoria Secrets.

I luv you lak fis luv wutter.....instead of complimenting your women sexuality, sensuality and african beauty

Baby you enjoying it and you like it? OOHH! how unromantic and unsexy, a complete turn-off ............HOW COUNTRY

Liberian Men Please step up your game!

Guest

Likewise Liberian women

Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2005 10:36 am

reply to the woman that pose the question not all liberian women.

Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2005 11:45 am

Ok ladies, why is that when one man do us wrong, we turn against all men. With attitudes like that, we miss out on our soul mates because we are filled with bitterness and will not let go off the pass. If you are that bitter about the situation, than you need to let it out on the man that hurt you, not all men. Don't let Liberian men pay for the mistakes of one man. I'm sorry sisters, I got much luv for your but I have to stand up for the brothers on this one. There are so many educated Liberian men living all over the world that are taking care (spiritually, financially, and emotionally) of their children and representing in the bedroom as well. Sometimes we focus so much on the negative things, and forget to support each other. Example(what happen to supporting a Liberian man that is living in the U.S all by himself, trying to put himself through school and support his family and kids back home). But Miss Nek, that doesn't matter to you. I guess because he's a man, he's a loser to you huh. I'm not excusing what your child/children father is doing, but don't let all men pay the price for your "baby daddy" irresponsibility.
Positive thoughts and Positive things happen to Positive people. I do pray that your child/children get the support they need before they start hating their father. You need to let some of that anger out in other ways besides male bashing. If we don't support the Liberian men that are doing the right things, we will end up pushing them away from us. As men and women of this beautiful republic, we need to build each other up, not destroy each other.

I have Liberian men in my life that are not losers. The Liberian men in my life that gets the ultimate respect are my:
Grandfather
Father
Brother
Uncles
Male Friends
I love these Liberian men and I will continue to support them no matter what happens. We all have our faults, but as people, we have to deal with our situation in a respectable manner.

Give all that anger and burden to the Lord and let him fight your battle. Why stress yourself out when there is someone higher than us that can turn every negative situation into a positive one. As always, you all stay blessed and also be encouraged.

WORD OF ADVICE FOR ONLY THE MEN OUT THERE WHO ARE NOT SUPPORTING THEIR CHILDREN: PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOUR SEEDS AND ELIMINATE THE DRAMA. IT’S DIFFICULT TO HEAR YOUR CHILD CALL ANOTHER MAN DADDY. STEP UP TO THE PLATE AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR BUSINESS.

Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2005 8:32 pm

nek wrote:

Yes I use the word COUNTRY because Liberian men are still stuck in the routine.

They Say:

Baby wat U cook fo me today....refusing to take his lady for dinner and a rendezvous in the park. try to be spontaneous and open-minded

Baby tak ou your cloth nah.....not appreciating the sexy and expensive teddy his woman bought from V. S...Men in case you are in tune it's call victoria Secrets.

I luv you lak fis luv wutter.....instead of complimenting your women sexuality, sensuality and african beauty

Baby you enjoying it and you like it? OOHH! how unromantic and unsexy, a complete turn-off ............HOW COUNTRY

Liberian Men Please step up your game!

Has it ever occured to you that if your man is not pleasing you in bed or complimenting you sufficiently you could let him know. You should step up to your plate and take control of the situation and quit complaining.

Think about this and be honest. When was the last time you noticed his haircut? When was the last time you initiated sex? Most of us Liberian Girls still have the old way of thinking when it comes to love and relationship. The man should always be the one doing the pleasing.

He doesn't take you out to dinner, take him out, be spontaneous and openminded.

You've bought new undies and he doesn't notice? Probably cuz you have it covered. Model in it for him, give him a strip tease.

It is not only the Liberian woman that is sexy or sensual. I find Liberian men sexy like hell. Compliment him, if he doesn't know how to compliment you, he'll learn from you.

Show him the words you love to hear when you are making love by telling them to him when he is pleasing you. If you like something he's doing to you, tell him, he shouldn't be the one asking anyway. Believe me, he'll tell you them also. Liberian men are very creative in the bedroom, give him the opportunity to know what you like and he'll please you.

Liberian men are truly wonderful!

Guest

Nek made the mistake by saying Liberian men instead of using the word "Most".

But come on, Truepatriot...women don't buy sexy undies and hide it.
Now, for real...you know Liberian women take initiative and make first moves.
As for strip tease, what about a man slipping on something sexy and giving this woman a show...how about that?

I understand most Liberian men are uncomfortable being sexy---but, one understand THERE IS A DIFFERENCE b/w looking sexy and being sexy.

There are words they can use without feeling uncomfortable, like DAMN

Yes, I said DAMN damn it! Smile

There's that damn which requires you to get your shit and run out the door 'cause things are not gonna be pretty

Then, there's that Damn...when said with a certain tone and expression.....now you know it gonna be on till the cops come knocking.

umm...ummm don't let it be the white cops Smile

Forums Moderator Joined: May 18, 2005 Posts: 1023

I believe what Truepatriot was saying is, if she started doing those things, he will surely follow her lead.
Sometimes the best way to teach someone is to lead by example. A man may not be on the same level of experience as we are, but if he's willing to learn, I wouldn't "trash" him.

Forums Moderator Joined: May 18, 2005 Posts: 1023

Perhaps "Nek" maybe you should try and play down your game. Did it ever cross your mind that with some nuturing and coaching Mr. COUNTRY could be a great lover?

Guest

Nek maybe your man is country in bed, I personally very civilize in bed, because I suck from your toes to your hair. what about that hmmm ?
Like that hmmmm?

Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2005 6:15 pm

well, s 4 me, i na country man. i do all those things. the woman demmo country. tell them to do 69 and they say na dirty thing. hm, i beg, let the woman them open eyes o

Guest

Nek, I think you should change the class of Liberian men you let yourself up to. If you buy rotten fish willingly, dont complain about the smell of it ok? Laughing

Mencguy

Guest

well NEK, from the nature of your concern, I think you deal with the wrong Liberian men. Try gettin the kind that will light candles around the room, open a bottle of Don Perrion, hold red roses betewwn his teeth, and turn on some soft music like the ones from Teddy Pendergrass, and Percy Sledge. Then as you slip off the silk seatless nighties, you lay on the bed with you legs spread eagle.....Oh! Oh! I guess women like you don't like your bud sucked on. Soo no need to go even futher. But after a session like that, lets see if you wont be the one asking the questions, and hollering all over the place, till the neighbors think someone is killing you softly.

Rodger.. and I am a Liberian man

Forums Moderator Joined: May 18, 2005 Posts: 1023

hmmm ...sounds kinky Rodger.

Guest

Rina, why most Liberian women do not like their bud sucked on? I mean the ones that still got theirs in tact? Are you one of them since you say that sounds kinky?
Rodger

Forums Moderator Joined: May 18, 2005 Posts: 1023

I plead the 5th (Fifth amendment).