Why Liberian men so (COUNTRY) in bed?

Virgin Poster Joined: Sep 05, 2006 Posts: 6

To comment on all that has been said.. I am newly dating a Liberian Man for the first time. I am African American/ black american how ever you wanna put it... and to be honest I was a little reluctant to the fact of getting involved with a liberian but I'm glad I did. He is a great man.. not becasue he is Liberian but becasue he is a man. Because I didnt have to tell him where, how, and when, it was smooth as silk baybe... but all because of the connection, when two people have chemestry then the bedroom is "unpredictable" the sky's the limit but if the chemestry is not there he could be a mixture of races and it wouldnt change anything.
As women we should be willing to do our part and not so quick to take the lead. he is the man so let him be manly.....
It was mentioned several times in the comments on how you can tell the man what to do... I think that is where relationships go wrong... when women/man play "who's the boss" as a woman I've learned that men are not childen their MEN, the ying to our yang, the night to our day.. so it all comes natural.. maybe you should have addressed the fact that CHEMESTRY is what lacks in the bedroom not liberian men.
Everything Bless!

New Poster Joined: Sep 06, 2006 Posts: 18

Not all liberian men are country i must admit some are so romantic until you women run away from them.Remember you are stereo typing all liberian men which is not good.
Your past relationships with men is what you are thinking on so girl you must quit thinking like that.
i spoiled my women with flowers,cards on the internet,wine,nice teddy,and i do know what (VS)is i do shop there too.Some of you women are too shy to even wear them you always want to be in the dark.Next time before you speak think twice. Huh

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Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 5:25 am

Troubleman, you are a complete gentleman.

And I agree that some ladies, just stereo type.

Television and Dvds and all this Hollywood

nonsense has turned fakeism to reality.

Give me a real man anyday. Like me , He may be

imperfect but with love, trust, kindness, understanding,

shareing, communication & patience we can grow to

oneness and fullness.

GOD BLESS ALL YOU BROTHERS

I Love you all

By the way Sisi Pancake is single again...

and No that does not make me a man hater.

I believe God will bring me my own NubianKing

Meanwhile I will wait patiently.

Sisi Pancake

I don't want a readymade man

Give me a man with whom we will grow TOGETHER

New Poster Joined: Sep 06, 2006 Posts: 18

We need to let the ladies know who we are.If her man was giving her all the money she will not complain about him being romantic all his money will do the sex for her.

Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 9:53 pm

Roflolllllllllllllllll

HAHAHA Troubleman, waooooooooooo, I truely admire your

honesty.

I have always wondered why money is so important to women.
I can understand that bills etc have to be paid, but the thing that
gets me is when a woman is out to drain His pocket..

Ladies o E no good o No do so.

Love because you love.
If you no love the man leave him ALONE

Happy Thursday Brothers and Sisters

Sisi Pancake

New Poster Joined: Sep 06, 2006 Posts: 18

69 is old style.you need to have some scented candles burning from the bath room,kitchen,living room,than the bed room.Put some rose petals from the bath room,as well as on the bed.Than spike it up with some romantic music maybe luther vandross or some barry white will do the rest.Spoil her to death sex is not all to it,caring and making that lady feel(SPECIAL).
Liberian women needs to know some good guys are still out there.Right now only one lady i want to have for the rest of my life she is in Texas.This is lady will not regret she will have the best i mean the best of her life.
So we need to stop thinking liberian men are country.Every time i think about something good i will come back.

Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 1:50 am

All it takes it thought and deed.

Troubleman I wish you and your

Lady many happy years together.

You represent what a Man should be.

Everyday is a new day. Do at least

one new thing to bring spice to your

loved ones day.

Sisi Pancake

Posted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 4:58 am

[size=12][color=blue][b]I'm glad to hear that you're practicing on
everyone.

One of the great "extra" benefits that you get
from using the concepts that you're learning here
is that you'll have more FUN in your "regular"
relationships... and in business.

To answer your question about "The Wrinkled
Brow" that was mentioned in a previous
newsletter...

Find a picture of Marlon Brando on the cover of
"A Streetcar Named Desire" or a picture of Colin
Farrell.

Notice the look that these guys have on their
faces.

There's something about this particular look
that says "I'm a man. I'm a BAD BOY. I'm sexy,
and I know it...."

This is a deep topic. And it's something that I
go into detail about in my Advanced Dating
Techniques program.

The long-and-short-of-it is that men can do
things that women find "sexy" and this is one of
them. You don't have to be naturally "handsome"
for women to find you "sexy". Again, this is a
deep topic, but that's the basic idea.

OK, I'm guessing that English isn't your first
language... at least I hope not.

But what you are saying here is clear.

You're basically saying that a man should
"court" a woman by taking her out to nice places
and paying for everything.

You also say that "a man should chase the
woman" and "a man has to show her that he would do
anything to please her".

Let's talk about these things a little bit...

First off, I get where you're coming from.

I used to act this way myself.

When I met a girl that I liked, I'd call her a
lot, take her to dinner, and chase after her.

What I never could understand is why, when I
acted this way, women tended to RUN AWAY from
me... instead of towards me. They would "play hard
to get", not seem very interested, and often only
liked me as a "friend".

Later, as I began studying guys who were
"naturally" successful with women and dating, I
found something VERY interesting...

I found that most of the guys I met who were
UNUSUALLY successful at attracting women DID NOT
CHASE the women.

In fact, if anything, they were the ones who
were "playing hard to get".

Of course, this confused me at first.

But what I've realized since is that when a
man "courts" a woman, he's hinting that he's
interested in a "long term relationship"... or
even marriage.

If the woman is also interested in marriage,
what does she usually do?

Right, she turns up the heat, and makes the man
REALLY work hard to "get her".

I mean, how else can she "be sure" that he's
serious?

On the other hand, if a man DOES NOT do all of
these typical "courtship" things, it changes
everything.

It's often confusing to a woman.

And if the woman knows that the man is also
able to attract OTHER women, it creates a
CHALLENGE in her mind.

This is why men who are dating several women
are usually more interesting to women than men who
have no dates.

Is my advice perfect, 100% of the time?

No way.

I teach guys how to be successful in the dating
world, not in the marriage world.

If a guy really likes a woman, and he's
interested in a "long term relationship", then the
rules change a bit (but not that much).

Most women SAY that they want a man to chase
them. But when it comes to the REAL WORLD, it
usually doesn't play out this way.

If you chase a woman, she will usually run.
Let's talk about "Bad Boys".

I personally believe that women are ATTRACTED
to "Bad Boys" on an "subconscious" level.

You'll have to get my Advanced Series if you
want a full explanation. It takes hours.

But, the point is that Bad Boys have aspects to
their personalities that women find SEXY.

Unfortunately, Bad Boys are often ABUSIVE as
well.

I don't like abuse, and I don't like to be
abusive.

In fact, I dislike MEAN people and MEAN
BEHAVIOR more than just about anything.

I may bust balls and tease a lot, but
underneath it all I'm always just teasing, or
trying to help.

One of the things that never sat well with me
was the idea that I had to do EVERYTHING that a
Bad Boy does in order to have women dig me.

Well, the good news is that I've realized that
it's very possible (and can be fun) to take some
of the great things that Bad Boys do to attract
women... and learn them...WITHOUT the abuse.

You probably see where I'm going here.

YES, Bad Boys often throw tantrums and "lose
their composure". This is true.

But, I think that throwing tantrums, yelling at
women, and being physically abusive to women are
all horrible.

They're just not good.

On the other hand, keeping your COMPOSURE is
the "right way" to deal with many situations with
women.

When you keep your composure, you actually show
that you're EVEN STRONGER than if you were to get
upset.

I mean, if you WANT to get upset, feel free.

Maybe we'll see you on the next Springer
rerun...

But COMPOSURE is a much better way. Try it,
you'll like it.
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Forums Moderator Joined: May 18, 2005 Posts: 1023

But do you think that Liberian men are "country" in bed? For a second there, you lost me with all the lectures.