What can a woman do to let a man know she like him?

Forums Moderator Joined: May 18, 2005 Posts: 1023

Short of being too aggressive, how can a woman let a guy know she would like to get to know him?

Posted: Sat Dec 31, 2005 10:49 pm

Honesty is the best policy. Just be yourself and keep it real. If you have feelings for someone just let them know. It's best to be honest than to beat around the bush.

Guest

The answer is very simple. Carry on a very intellectual and personal conversation. Be very open and honest about everything. Do not set limits on subject matters. Then when you do go out, body language plays a very important role too. What you order on the menue will also give a good picture of where you are heading with the friendship. The rest will come later, and you will be happy in the end.
Tune in later for more details.
Rodger

Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 8:19 am

I agree with Rodgers to an extend. The conversation is key, I've been told by very intelligent brothers that women don't engage them. Engage him in a conversation showing who you are to the best of your ability. From that conversation you will know if you have a wimp or a real man.

President Poster Joined: Aug 04, 2004 Posts: 189

Just hit the point... No need for long conversation.

That's my view.

President Poster Joined: Mar 04, 2006 Posts: 145

Most Liberian females I know seem to be very good at letting a man know they like them. They're good at letting one know they DON'T like them as well.

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 8:59 am

Over the course of history, it is evident that women have a strong mesmeric relationship pole that attracts men Unconsciously. So, when it comes to men exhibiting feelings for a particular girl, you have to understand the Psychology of men. Men are moved by emotions and most often by sudden sexual reflexes. This peculiar behavior of men can be expressed by just a simple conversation. But let me say that the girl have to compose herself has a lady, humble and most often innocent.

j. brown

Forums Moderator Joined: May 18, 2005 Posts: 1023

feli wrote:

Over the course of history, it is evident that women have a strong mesmeric relationship pole that attracts men Unconsciously. So, when it comes to men exhibiting feelings for a particular girl, you have to understand the Psychology of men. Men are moved by emotions and most often by sudden sexual reflexes. This peculiar behavior of men can be expressed by just a simple conversation. But let me say that the girl have to compose herself has a lady, humble and most often innocent.

j. brown

I think what you're talking about is just basic biology; you know....the whole boy- girl equation. And that is very natural! I think men are always moved by sexual reflexes, then after some interactions, their emotions some how gets pulled in either willingly on their part or unwillingly due to strong sexual attatchments.
In being a "lady, humble, and innocent" does that mean she can not have an opinion, "past" or bad day? Because it seems here that you almost want this person to lie to you. Honestly, let's say I'm interested in you: and I know that those are the things you want me to be, I can be that to attract you. Yeah I know a leopard doesn't change it's spots, but there are women who have been able to "fool" men into believeing they are something else.

Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 7:46 am

Hmmm

The man can sense your Pheromes and your

Body language.

You don't even realise that already, you are

doing both and he picks up on the signals.

If he likes he will chase you like a peacock

chasing a peahen.

Relax, don't stress. Nature has it all worked

out for you already.

God Bless Mother Nature

Sisi Pancake

New Poster Joined: Sep 06, 2006 Posts: 18

LADIES,LADIES,
If you want a guy it is plain simple i know for sure some guys are so crazy and not hip to the fact when you tell him you are into him.He will think you are too much,and brave to tell him how you feel about him.We men should be very bless when a woman comes and say that to us, not too many ladies will do that.For me i will be happy,and treat that lady with great respect we are not in the old days again.If a man can do it i don't see why the women can't do it too.Things are changing every day we must know that.[/u]

Average Poster Joined: Nov 29, 2004 Posts: 78

am yet to find that out, i think it depends on the type of guy and his personality... it is really hard to find a set of guidelines to follow

Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 7:50 pm

Michele in all honesty, I don't think there are any set guidelines.

It is down to personality and circumstances. What works for one

may not work for another.

Just try to study the person and act on what you observe and hear.

Listen to them and get to know what they do and don't like.

SisiPancake

Forums Moderator Joined: May 18, 2005 Posts: 1023

I've put some of these comments to the test and here are the results:

smiling: sometimes misinterpreted as being friendly; other times it worked.

being natural: well, you'll actually have to get close to the person to act "natural"; when I say close, I don't mean intimately; you just can't be natural from across the room.

being bold: was actually not my style; I "chickened" out before actually putting it to the test; it seemed so not me.

flirty: I liked alot! the shy glances, the smile that says more, an occasional touch,.....

There was a wide range of emotions from the guys; some liked it, some thought it was too "western"; they like to do the "chasing"; for some it was all the right "signals".
Is there a right or wrong way? No, I think it's all about preference!