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Innocent
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Joined: May 06, 2004
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Sat Sep 09, 2006 8:04 am |
 
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Listen people I believe that one person can love more than one...
for example you used to love someone but something happend
between you and that person you loved someone else and moved on, And got married but, later in life you find out that you still love your ex and she feels the same about you...
She knows you got a wife and she dont mind being the second wife. And you tell your wife that you dont mind a second. but, she minds.... So what can you do...?
1. Just get married without telling her?
2.Tell her and still get married even if she says No.
3.Leave the EX out... which will be a hard thing to do?
Now what will you do if in your case? |
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SisiPancake
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Joined: Jun 12, 2006
Posts: 1330
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Sat Sep 09, 2006 11:34 am |
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Innocent
You see that situation is called
Playing with fire.
No!!!NO!!! No!!!
You finish with one woman first
before you start another relationship.
If 2 people have split up it means the
relationship was not working.
Maybe its the idea of what the good times
were like that makes people feel they are
still in love. It is like patching up the broken
past. Go back there, I guarantee you,
you will wish you didnt.
Why would you want to enforce the woman
you claim to love, to accept you sleeping
with another woman. That is emotional torture
 
Wake up and Smell the Coffee o
Sisi Pancake
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Rinabear07
Forums Moderator
Joined: May 18, 2005
Posts: 1023
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Thu Dec 28, 2006 12:02 am |
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Innocent
You don't seem so innocent now! 
While it is possible to love two persons at the same time; you may not love then equally; you will always love one more than the other.
I don't know the reasons why the first relationship didn't work out; and maybe you should have taken some time to do some healing before entering your current relationship. Whatever the reasons, the damage has been done!
-When Lady # 1 was gone, this other lady was there; she stuck by you, made you laugh, she took care of you, loved you and helped you to heal.
-You made a life long commitment to cherish and love your wife. She is your lost "rib".
-You owe her not only your undying love and trust, but also your body no longer belongs to you alone. You can't just up and decide to share it with someone else without her consent.
-Have you thought about what the other person was doing when you were not together? Do you understand what you could be bringing into your "marriage bed"?
Best advice: "Let sleeping dogs lie" basically, leave it alone. Tell your old girlfriend that you've moved on ( and mean it). Sever all ties and communications. And start believing in your marriage.
You may not have what you had with the other lady (and that ended anyway); but the sky is the limit! Trust God and stay with your wife! Polygamy is AGAINST the law! |
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SisiPancake
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Thu Dec 28, 2006 2:05 am |
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Innocent..
Why would you even consider hurting the one that loves you, nurtures you and stands by you.
The previous lady rejected you..try and remember that.
You go back, I assure you, the same story will be repeated.
She is the same person, not transformed or remade.
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Rinabear07
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Thu Dec 28, 2006 2:18 am |
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"True dat" as they say here in the US. The only thing different about her is: you! She missed the well when the water got dried! She now recognizes or appreciates you!
You know that expression....."the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence"? Well.......not always, sometimes you get on the "other side" and the "grass" is so yellow it ain't funny! |
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SisiPancake
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Thu Dec 28, 2006 2:33 am |
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I wish I knew what decision Innocent made 
Innocent would you mind telling us or is it a part you wish to
keep to yourself..I respect your privacy if you decide it's none
of my bizzywax 
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Rinabear07
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Thu Dec 28, 2006 2:51 am |
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I know he made the right decision!  |
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DSP
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Joined: Mar 04, 2006
Posts: 145
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Wed Jan 03, 2007 12:56 am |
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Rinabear and SisiPancake.. the three of us would make a great combination.
***runs for cover*** |
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SisiPancake
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Wed Jan 03, 2007 12:59 am |
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DSP lollllllllllll
Three of us do what? Hmmmm tell me 
You better come out of hiding and explain yourself.
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Rinabear07
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Wed Jan 03, 2007 1:00 am |
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hmmmmmmmm.......................................... |
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SisiPancake
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Wed Jan 03, 2007 1:07 am |
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D = Do
S = Speak
P = Please
Go on do tell us.
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DSP
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Joined: Mar 04, 2006
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Wed Jan 03, 2007 2:38 am |
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D = Do
S = Speak
P = Please
Go on do tell us.
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Too much information is not good...lol. |
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Rinabear07
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Wed Jan 03, 2007 4:07 am |
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DSP.....................you're not gonna do a"Player" on us, so spit it out! |
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DSP
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Wed Jan 03, 2007 4:09 am |
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| DSP.....................you're not gonna do a"Player" on us, so spit it out! |
lol, what is that exactly? |
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Rinabear07
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Wed Jan 03, 2007 4:25 am |
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He started a "feeding" frenzy.......................got us all worked up for nothing. And enjoyed every moment of it too! Check out the forum: "I have a crush on a lady on this website" |
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