Why arent you married yet???

Virgin Poster Joined: Nov 05, 2006 Posts: 4

The difference is the way you think of the subject is not how they think. Take this from me, the one that says ' I want a baby mama' is almost ready to settle down. But the guys I'm talking about don't want to hear of fathering a child. Why do you think they refuse pregnancy when they know it's theirs? A guy told me he enjoys been on the side than taking a full responsibility. Can you imagine that. Ladies, watch out. They are all around you.

Posted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 5:39 am

lol Kyne
You see it all comes back to what the individual wants and what
certain phrases mean to them.
Here in UK Baby father's don't marry. The babies are usually
unwanted pregnancies. You see them on TV trying to find out
if the baby is really theirs.

Some girls don't want marriage or to live as a couple but they
want a baby. So the man now becomes Baby Father.

Posted: Thu Apr 12, 2007 7:37 am

Hey Player long time no talk, how is your achitecturing business going ?

Any way speaking of marriage i am getting married next month that is May,2007, you guys shouldnt scare me now because i really enjoy being single i mean the freedom to do anything i want but i know when i do get married all of that is going to change. One thing i will like to say to everyone is especally the single people is that it is always good to make your spouse your best friend. You two should be open about everything and be willing to share everything it should be some one u truely love unconditionally. some one you feel save around some one who feels your pain and knows exactly what makes you happy i mean some one like your best friend. Never married or fall inlove with anyone base on what you see it should always be what you feel inside. Trust me i am speaking from experience i was always looking for that prince charming type of guy thick tall, harmsome looking, a graduate, a good family background, a career man, out spoken ect....... Dont get me wrong nothing is wrong marrying a guy with any of those qualities but none of them should be your yardstick instead you should be more concern about how he makes you feel, how he treats and cares about you and people even with all that still take it to the Lord in prayers and ask for a revelation.

Forums Moderator Joined: May 18, 2005 Posts: 1023

Congrats bebe!!!!! It has been along time!

It is always important to seek God's selection for you: for it is God that will give you the grace to live with that person.

I believe that as God knows me inside out; more than I may know myself! And who better to select a more perfect partner for me to do those things that He has called me to do.
In the past, like you said, I was going on my personal preferences and the relationship never lasted! So I say, wait on God, His time is the BEST!!!!!