Why do so many men cheat on their wives?

Average Poster Joined: Jul 02, 2005 Posts: 73

She is extremely honest and sincere, however, he cheats!!! Very sad Sad

. The most famous cheater of our days Bill Clinton said he cheated because he could. Just think about it for a second, it means that most men will cheat if they could, so don't give us the opportunity or the ability to cheat ladies.

Do you agreed with Bill Clinton?

Average Poster Joined: Jan 05, 2007 Posts: 110

well, Peacer, that is the serious topic. You can get so many answers how many people will read it.
Of course, noone wants to be with a person who cheats.
Maybe, I agree that many men will cheat if they have an opportunity. If we, women, don't give you that chance, some men can take it anyway.
I mean, that depend on a person. Some women can cheat even worse than men.
So, couples, please respect each other, don't let your other half be hurt. Smile

Posted: Sat Jan 20, 2007 7:16 am

Everyone can cheat if they want to.
But here is the deal.

I believe it goes back to morals, and self respect.
If you love your woman/man why would you
risk bringing home a nasty gift(disease) to
the person you love.
I guess some not all,cheat because they have no
concience and for the others their concience
is not working properly.

Maybe to some it makes them look like the King
The leader of the pack having women dangling from
his arms like fake bling bling Laughing

Virgin Poster Joined: Nov 05, 2006 Posts: 4

This is my view: There are three factors that make men cheat. 1. when the opportunity is given, 2. If they have access to what they cheat on and 3. If they are not honest. Ladies, You can control number 1 & 2 but not number 3 because honesty is from the heart. The sad news is, the honest ones are difficult to find, if not impossible.

President Poster Joined: Aug 04, 2004 Posts: 189

I'm sorry to say that women need not to give their men opportunity to cheat; men cheat because they want to and if they can get away with it, they'll do it.

Women are like nectar to bees. Once the bees see a garden of flowers, they can smell the nectar and they the men want as much of that nectar as they can get. It's that simple. Some men cheat because they want to. Some like variety; others like the chase and the satisfaction knowing that other women find them appealing apart from their women at home. Believe me when I say if 98% of the men on this site were honest to admit to cheating, they'd tell you it had nothing to do with not loving their wives.

I bet most of the men in a polygamous marriage cheat less or don't cheat at all. Most men want and love variety because it's different.

Posted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 12:10 am

Player wrote:

I'm sorry to say that women need not to give their men opportunity to cheat; men cheat because they want to and if they can get away with it, they'll do it.

Women are like nectar to bees. Once the bees see a garden of flowers, they can smell the nectar and they the men want as much of that nectar as they can get. It's that simple. Some men cheat because they want to. Some like variety; others like the chase and the satisfaction knowing that other women find them appealing apart from their women at home. Believe me when I say if 98% of the men on this site were honest to admit to cheating, they'd tell you it had nothing to do with not loving their wives.

I bet most of the men in a polygamous marriage cheat less or don't cheat at all. Most men want and love variety because it's different.

I have a question...
When a man is away playing with another woman, does it
bother his concience?

Average Poster Joined: Jan 05, 2007 Posts: 110

Here is a thought...Does men's cheating have something to do with the fact that most of the male animals have not one but couple of females? Lions, tigers, some birds. Is it nature made men like that? Laughing

And I'm kind of agree that in lot of cases, if man cheat, there is part of woman's fault. Maybe she didn't do everything to keep him next to herself without even a thought of another woman.
Oh... here is funny example...It happens with one couple in Ukraine. Husband was cheating, his wife somehow found out about that. She didn't fight with him. She found out when and with who he was cheating. She went to the store, bought beautiful dresses,went to the beauty salon.... well, she changed completly... become more atractive and sexy....Than was her next step...every time her husband was leaving from home, she basicly... raped him.Every time
...She made him so exosted after sex... Well, he stoped doing that . And now he prays on her. Smile

Posted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 1:02 am

Humans a made different to animals and we are given specific
instruction. One man One woman. We are meant to be monogamous.
We also have a concience, which makes us uniqe. Animals do not
have conciences. We are able also to distinguish right from wrong.

How does a woman *keep her man from running off with others*?
Please tell me that?

Average Poster Joined: Jan 05, 2007 Posts: 110

I agree with you Sisi, but there so many people who act like animals Rolling Eyes

I don't know how a woman can keep her man, I think there is no spesific rule. I've never faced this problem....at least as far as I know Very Happy

....Women are so different, men are so different...
Again I agree Sisi with you...it is about moral and self respect...

Posted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 1:20 am

Animals behave the way they are made to.
It is humanbeings that sin not animals.
God has problems with mankind not the animal kingdom
think about that.

Average Poster Joined: Jan 05, 2007 Posts: 110

Oh, I don't denay that Sisi! I'm totally agree with that.
The ? is why people behave like that? And it is not just men's behaviour, some women do the things that shock.

Posted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 1:23 pm

I would say they have attitude problems and their morals
are not up to scratch.
Some people have grown up in abusive homes and that
is what they learn and think is normal.
There is help out there, like anger management.

Average Poster Joined: Aug 13, 2006 Posts: 86

Pacer, what Clinton got to do with this? I think the question should be... why do people cheat on the partners, its a MAN
and WOMAN problem I think. And like Sisipan rightly put it, probably no morals or self respect for self. we were meant
to be monogamous, not bringing home sickness to the one we claim to LOVE. We are Animals, we are humans, we
have conciences. I think people should be responsible adults, case close.

Posted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 1:02 pm

There is a passage in the Bible that says
*Love her as your own body* and sure it also works as *love him as your own body*.
When two people get together according to the words of the Creator
Papa God, He said we become one.

Please show me where there is room for 3 or more?
Jumping into bed with another person constitutes theft.
The cheater is actually stealing time from his loved one.
No just that, he/she now becomes a liar because they
now go back home and lie about their day.

For those who have not really thought deep.. I beg you to ponder
over this small but very important matter..
If God made the animals first, and then made Humans, can you
not see that we are NOT animals?
Cleary God said that Humans must have dominion over the
animals, the birds of the air and the fish in the sea.

Therefore is it not logical to conclude that we are not meant
to be like animals that can have multiple partners without
having to worry about long term family relationships?

Most animals will breed and naturally their babies will eventually
have to leave the pack .
We do not do that. Human families stick close till they draw their
last breath of oxygen.
We make plans for the future and above all another major difference
between humans and animals is
We have knowledge of God and worship Him
Animals do not worship the creator tho by their beauty we see clearly
the handwork of the Living God and we can attribute praise to him.

Guest Poster Joined: Mar 12, 2007 Posts: 1

Not so much a peply as a Q:
i have a sister inlaw new to the family by 1 1/2 years she islike 12 13 years younger then her husband my (brother in law).We all go out some times. me my husband & his brother & wife. She hase made it no!! secret to me that she thinks my husband is hot!!! She also never stops sairing at him. now i have been down this little road before i know what she thinks.I can't belive she say's all the time to me .Like where does she get her nerve.Any way i have brought this to my husbands att. he can't belive it but his reply leaves me with q: of my own. He say's it bothers him because it's his brothers wife.& say's i should not worry because he would never do that to his brother. now what i wanted to hear is ( i would never do that to you .) am i putting to much into this. As for her i try to handle myself the best way i can givin the prblem at hand This is the third time i have had to listen to her talk like this about my husband of 13 years. I do not wish to upset my brother inlaw so when she started talking about it again i simply put it to her like this ( i put my index finger to my lips & said (shhhh His wife doesn't like it when you say that stuff) meaning me i didn't like it. trying to keep the peace. so guy & gals tell me what you think about this & haw i handled it. & is there anything to what he said/or not said