How can a woman be satisfied?

Posted: Sat Jan 27, 2007 6:52 pm

Women have complained for many years that men don't take
the time to make them reach climax. Too often we hear
complaints about quickly in and it's over in a short time, leaving
the woman totally frustrated.

Why are men always in such a hurry and what do you
think your woman can do to help you slow down and enjoy
fore play before you reach penetration Question

This thread is intended as a learning medium, a place
to open up and say what you really want from a woman.

Sisters it is good to teach your man how you want it.
Don't presume he must know where you feel good, because
every woman is different.

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In a deep "BARRY WHITE" kind of voice: THE LOVE-DOCTOR IS IN THE HOUSE! Cool

For many women, they themselves, are not comfortable with their own bodies: whether it's due to a cultural issue, weight issues, or their own insecurities, etc.

Another thing is the man's "ego". The myth about the "GREAT AFRICAN LOVER" does not exist! You BECOME a great/good lover, it's not an inherent trait. Yep....they're not "born".

Maturity level..............in my case, when I get married, I know there's no other "option" for me; so I need to be able to tell my husband, when I'm not satisfied, or maybe gently "suggest" somethings we could try. Cool

I know that alot of the guys I've talked to about this: one of the reason for "premature" ejaculation is the anticipation they experience, and that will make them ......er not perform to standard?

Some men do suffer (unknowingly) from this "issue"(premature ejaculation), and there are medications (not gensing, guys) to help with this condition.

For years, sex was thought of as solely for "procreation". I know of older ladies who never kissed their lover/husband, .........and you can forget about "foreplay"! I mean they just "rolled" over and played "dead"! Shocked

Selecting the right times to make love is also good; a woman can not enjoy the act if she's worrying about dinner, the kids clothes, a problem at work...............we women need to learn to forget about everything else and focus on relaxing and enjoying the moment.

Also don't eexpect your partner to do anything you won't do...........don't go there y'all!

I'm talking in terms of physical appearance. If you want him to have the body of a wrestler, well just know you're gonna have to do some work too! Laughing

I hope I get some feedback on my points.........I can't wait!

Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 12:02 am

This is a new age. I really hope women will learn to communicate
to their man, what she wants.
Like you say some will just lie back like a lump of wood.
Is it because they have no idea and have not learnt it is okay to
be in tune with their body and respond to feelings and sensations?

For the men, foreplay is essentinal. Cool

It will really enhance your
bedroomatics. Trust me. Take your time, hold back and make
her beg!!!

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I don't know about every woman..........but I was fortunate (my dad would beg to differ) to have an older brother who thought it important for me to know certain things Laughing

, granted it was earlier than my father would have liked, but in retrospect, I'm grateful!

I think leaving the "pleasure" all up to the man is kind of wrong............if you're gonna be in the bed, participate! Rub his back, moan, gyrate your hips, kiss him, blink your eyes........do something to let him know you're there! Laughing

Placing the success of the event entirely on the man is stressful. If he does come quickly, and you did nothing to "help", who are you gonna blame, I mean he got his,..................... Laughing

look who's left in the "cold"?

Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 12:28 am

Heyyy Rina
You be real sex therapist o.
What are you teaching me o lol (acts innocent)
I agree, I also think women should wake up
and make the first move.
Even make passionate love to him, wake him
up middle of the nite and give it to him hott.

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Na problem o..........the man will be tired at work the next day! Tired but happy!!!! Laughing

Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 5:07 am

Na wao. Rina I give up for tonite.
Error messages are not allowing me
to read or reply messages.
I hope this gets sent. Rolling Eyes

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I'm having the same problem.........I get a "debug" error message, do you?

Average Poster Joined: Jan 05, 2007 Posts: 110

Hey Rina, what if the man would not even notice at night anything. Shocked

Next day he will be tired, happy, and have no idea what happened last night.... Shocked

Probably that will not happened, just kidding Smile

Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 3:08 pm

No No, Uliya...
If he does not feel anything that mean you not doing
it right lolllllllllll,
That means you will have to go back to Rina's Art
of Love School. Laughing

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Uliya.....sweetie, if he's not feeling anything, he's either dead or drunk! In your case, I hope the latter. Laughing

There are some people who enjoy "going" with dead people(necrophilia), I don't know why;........excuse me one second...............eeewwwwwwwwww!!!!!

And drunk men aren't always as drunk as you think Wink

Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 11:08 pm

Or the man just wants over n done with. Smile

Umm yeah there are some really wiered fetishes
around @ Rina. I don't know how these people
come up with those ideas.
What about feedees and feeders? Nobody gonna
make me eat till I am bigger than a house, just
to get his rocks off Rolling Eyes

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Feedees and Feeders..................what the heck???????????????

The world is so messed up now.............it's amazing! The devil has changed something as beautiful as sex between a man and a woman, that God created, and just perverted it!

And I know this could lead to a whole new thread but,............I don't care what anyone says, sex is not meant to be between anything ( and I do stress the "anything") other than a LIVING man and LIVING woman!

God intended it for pro-creation; it's hard to procreate with "like" sexes, cats ( poor fluffy), dogs, horses etc

If I missed your perversion on the list, it's not an exclusion, but rather a revulsion at the thought! Laughing

Posted: Fri Feb 02, 2007 12:21 am

Some of these things need to be made illegal.
One feeder got his feedee so big she could not
get off the bed, became housebound, and needed
the firebrigade to lift her off her bed. All that only
after they had smashed the wall down to get to her
because she could not even fit through the door. Evil or Very Mad

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See,.............that's sick!

What was she doing? Just being fed into a 4-digit weight size? What satisfaction did she get from all this? I'm really struggling with this!

I have heard, Laughing

of food being incorporated as part of foreplay, whip cream, honey, strawberries, not chicken, steak, turkey, rump roast Laughing

Were they having sex at all? If not, then it can not be termed as a sexual perversion, can it?

Confused!