how likely are women to cheat?

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LB wrote:

So why is it that women have a good reputation for not cheating?

'Cuz we're discrete!

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LB wrote:

ur right, and I find that I am not insecure about some things, but I realize that I am super insecure about my relationship at times because its one of the things I really care about and that I hope goes well

And that's cuz you keep comparing your relationship with others or what you see on TV.
Always remember when comparing other relationships to your own, that you are only seeing the "skin" of it; you don't get to see what happens when no one is looking!

Your current relationship is one of a kind; different from any other that you've been involved in.

It's ok to "worry" about one's relationship, but obsessing is another thing all together.

When do you relax and enjoy your relationship? Do you have any friends that you and your girlfriend could hang out with, and you could see how other people are in their relationships?

Is this your first serious relationship? I know it's kind of late to be asking, but this question just won't go away!

Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 3:26 am

You see Rina is using the RELAX word too.
LB, concentrate on you and your sweetheart
it takes 2 to make a relationship. Not 2 plus
all the other people out there who also have
their own worries and problems.

Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 4:14 am

You BOTH ARE GENIUSES !!! OR doctors, or something smart.

To answer you ur question Rinabear07 this is my first Serious relationship, but not the first relationship in general.

As for my girlfriend I am her first relationship, and her first serious relationship. I was her first everything basically and yet she seems to be more clam and relaxed about everything especially compared to me. I think its because I've invested time in relationships and even though I didn't take them quite serious, it contributed to how I view relationships.

So basically I just hope that I improve and that things do work out. ( I pray about it at least twice a week)

And Sisipancake pointed out the key word Relax. Sometimes I think that is a talent , more than something anyone can do, but you are right.

In this case hopefully I develop this talent. [/quote]

Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 4:14 am

You BOTH ARE GENIUSES !!! OR doctors, or something smart.

To answer your question Rinabear07 this is my first Serious relationship, but not the first relationship in general.

As for my girlfriend I am her first relationship, and her first serious relationship. I was her first everything basically and yet she seems to be more clam and relaxed about everything especially compared to me. I think its because I've invested time in relationships and even though I didn't take them quite serious, it contributed to how I view relationships.

So basically I just hope that I improve and that things do work out. ( I pray about it at least twice a week)

And Sisipancake pointed out the key word Relax. Sometimes I think that is a talent , more than something anyone can do, but you are right.

In this case hopefully I develop this talent. [/quote]

Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 5:00 am

Try not to use your past relationships to measure
how things are going in your present one.
Remember those were other people with different
personalities, likes and dislikes.

Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 5:49 am

So r u married Sisipancake ? Seems like you would be a nice wife

Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 7:54 am

SisiPancake is single.
I think I have actually passed my sell by date.

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LB wrote:

So r u married Sisipancake ? Seems like you would be a nice wife

Oh, oh........................................

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SisiPancake wrote:

SisiPancake is single.
I think I have actually passed my sell by date.

Sell by date??????...............Wine, cheese and women perfect with age!

Girl............you're ripe for the picking!!! Laughing

Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 1:38 am

lol !! ! Thats all women!

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See LB...................Mr. Youngbuck What do you know about that? huh...........Let me find out you got a soft spot for a mature woman. Laughing

Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 3:19 am

I'll say this : I really admire them and think that they get more beautiful every year

Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 5:51 am

Pluck me Pluck me!!!! Razz

Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 6:47 am

lol . You girls have great and amazing personalities, and I don't even know yall personally