how likely are women to cheat?

Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 12:12 am

Being realistic in today's society, in a good relationship how likely are women to cheat on their men? And what is the excuse for the cheating? Is it because the man did something (keep in mind the man believes he's doing the right thing) , or because of the circumstances of her situation?

Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 12:24 pm

I think it is only fair to take each situation
as it comes. You can't really have the same
rules and judge all women by the same yard
stick. The same way you can't lump all men
into the same box.

Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 7:22 pm

So why is it that women have a good reputation for not cheating?

Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 10:06 pm

Well men are known to play away games, while
women are more centred on keeping themselves,
untainted and unblemished from the nasty reputation
of being one who sleeps around.
We are far too busy with more important issues.

Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2007 12:41 am

That's very interesting !

I think you may be right about that, but it seems to me that if a girl meets a man who looks better, who is smarter, who can treat her better, who has more money, it seems that she would be tempted to cheat or at least have deep feelings for this man over her current boyfriend

Average Poster Joined: Jun 19, 2007 Posts: 64

.....LB.....you sound a little insecure my friend. You shouldn't worry so much about your girlfriend. A good woman will love you no matter what another man has........On the other hand, a squirrely woman is something you don't need.... My advice........enjoy life and don't analyze the women too much.

Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2007 3:28 am

LB if you were my boyfriend, your constant insecurity
would be deemed as nagging. Nagging leads to arguements,
and destroys relationships.
You have serious issues not your woman.
STOP creating false scenarios..
If you want her to run away from you..keep on with the
negativity, and I can assure you she will be out that door
faster than you would care to imagine.

Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2007 6:34 am

you guys have good points.

I do tend to think a lot, and also be insecure which is what I am trying to get over, but sometimes I can't separate the difference between my insecurity and what real life is and what happens to good people. What are some ways that people deal with insecureness.

Average Poster Joined: Jun 19, 2007 Posts: 64

......WOW...LB...I really appreciate your honesty. I think that honesty is going to be your greatest strength in overcoming insecurity..........that and good friends. If a man surrounds himself with good friends that will support him and give good advice, then he can overcome anything. Everyone knows that in todays world it is hard to find such friends, but don't give up.........there are still good people out there.!!

Average Poster Joined: Jun 19, 2007 Posts: 64

......whatever you do LB, don't isolate yourself. Isolation always breeds insecurity. Get out there.!!...have some fun. Find new ways to entertain yourself........that's how you will meet new people and build relationships. Very Happy

Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2007 9:33 am

ur right, and I find that I am not insecure about some things, but I realize that I am super insecure about my relationship at times because its one of the things I really care about and that I hope goes well

Average Poster Joined: Jun 19, 2007 Posts: 64

.......I can identify with you, LB. To be crazy in love with a girl is a scary time.....especially if you are young. Some men will have their hearts broken. That's the price you could pay for laying it all on the line...........but true love is worth the risk. The trick is not to give a woman too much power. Be yourself and respect yourself.......in return, she will respect you. A woman wants you to be strong, and they are very good about sensing weakness........so don't give her an excuse for "running away" like Sisi said Wink

Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2007 8:19 pm

Good advice again. It is a great possibility that I could chase her away. Nothing bad has happened so far and we've been together for almost two years now. I guess I've been doing something right...Now only if I knew what that was...

Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2007 8:18 am

LB.. you worry too much.

RELAX!!!!!

Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2007 11:48 am

lol ur right too Sisipancake ! I admire your spirit how can I obtain that spirit too?