letter to the parents

Average Poster Joined: Jun 28, 2007 Posts: 54

I decided to share this following a post on homosexuality..........

Dear Dad I decided to write to you
Knowing that I’ve never done this before
But I feel this is best for what I am to do
You may not feel the same anymore
I hope to remain your pride and joy
Aside from the trophies and bad jokes
You will still love me after all
It was for you that I played sports
Though I really wanted to read my books
With each game won, I was your son
I had your brawn and mother’s looks
It was here that my change begun
You see dad, I became excited
These things are not natural
I would get tingled at the sight of male bodies
My attraction I hid from their eyes and yours
I hid well, mocking others like me
To you we were sick, in need of some cure
Now I’m done living like you; pretending
I love you dad, but I’m in love with a man
I’m still your son dad, I hope you understand

Dear Mom life has been busy but good
Though I miss coming home to your cooking
I don’t get in touch with you as I should
But I’m starting now with this letter I’m writing
You’ve been hinting of wanting grandkids
Yeah I know ma, you want me to settle down
I’ve finally made it, a nice, good job and crib
I’ve found a mate but you won’t be seeing any white gown
See mom, when you went to work I would play
Wearing your shoes, clothes and make up I begin
To be like you or at least your little girl for that day
The days became years and I still didn’t like me
I wanted dolls and dresses; you got me guns and bats
Well, I went and changed everything
Got the estrogen, boobs, rocking stilettos and all that
I’m still your son, but only on the inside
You may want to want to start calling me by a different name
I still want to make you proud by being a gushing bride
Don’t mind my appearance; my heart is still the same
Think of me as a new found daughter
Now all I need is a surrogate mother

Average Poster Joined: Jun 19, 2007 Posts: 64

........DAMN......Pudding Puff.......that is seriously messed up..!!!....the fairys were flying across the monitor. Shocked

Average Poster Joined: Jun 28, 2007 Posts: 54

Which is why I want to ask this ques.:

Which is the lesser of two evils- having a child who turns out to be gay or has undergone a sex change?

Posted: Sat Sep 22, 2007 6:24 am

Either way you look at it, neither is normal.
When you consider.. the body is not being
used for it's orignal purpose, so from my
point of view, they are as bad as each other.

Average Poster Joined: Jun 28, 2007 Posts: 54

My dear, you'll have to pick between the devil and the deep blue sea.

Which one?

Forums Moderator Joined: May 18, 2005 Posts: 1023

bpudding wrote:

Which is why I want to ask this ques.:

Which is the lesser of two evils- having a child who turns out to be gay or has undergone a sex change?

bpudding.................I don't believe there is a "lesser" evil. Evil is evil.

A gay child, in my thinking can stilled be saved; not that there's no redemption for the sex change child.....................but

A child with a sex change, in my view, is a great loss! I would not know how to relate to that child. There would be an awkwardness!

Average Poster Joined: Jun 28, 2007 Posts: 54

Excuse my layman's view of the bible but I thought that ANYONE could be saved if repentance is genuine.

Posted: Sat Sep 29, 2007 2:41 am

With repentance. one has to change their life
around. Not that God is asking for perfection,
since we are all sinners we will still keep erring.

It is deliberate sin that God wants us to avoid.
Some do things and don't know any different,
they are not held guilty. However if one is shown
God's way, thereby enabling the individual to
make a choice.. then they cannot say they
didn't know any better.

Repentance works hand in hand with a new lifestyle.
That is just the way it is..

Average Poster Joined: Jun 28, 2007 Posts: 54

I concur with the last statement.

On that note, a transvestite or transgender can be saved irrespective of previous cosmetic changes once repentance is genuine and of course lifestyle is for God's glory.

Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 2:21 am

That is exactly so. God sees beyond physical
changes. He sees our heart and mind. He can
read us like a book. Unlike people, God cannot
be fooled.