Would you forgive her?

Posted: Sat Jan 20, 2007 7:30 am

The flip side of the coin.
If your woman slept with another man, and
she claims it meant nothing, would you
take her back Question

Average Poster Joined: Jan 05, 2007 Posts: 110

Are there any men online? I would like to know what will be answer.
C'mon!! Wink

Virgin Poster Joined: Nov 05, 2006 Posts: 4

Before I begin, I want to draw the line between 'woman and wife' on one hand, 'forgiving and taking her back' on the other. I would say, 'my woman', if I'm not marry to you and we are living together. That's the respectful way of saying girlfriend. If we are marry, I call you my wife. If my woman do that to me, I w'll not take her back. If it's my wife, yes. But I will not forgive her unless she repent. I say so because it's not costly to have another woman as it is to have another wife.

Posted: Sat Jan 20, 2007 9:51 am

Kyne wrote:

Before I begin, I want to draw the line between 'woman and wife' on one hand, 'forgiving and taking her back' on the other. I would say, 'my woman', if I'm not marry to you and we are living together. That's the respectful way of saying girlfriend. If we are marry, I call you my wife. If my woman do that to me, I w'll not take her back. If it's my wife, yes. But I will not forgive her unless she repent. I say so because it's not costly to have another woman as it is to have another wife.

Kyne welcome to forums.

I love the way you break it down.
I think when things go wrong the offender has to make
changes to show she is sorry.

Average Poster Joined: Jan 05, 2007 Posts: 110

Hey Kine!
You really explained it so nice.
I think it is important to realise and exept the fact that you did wrong. We are not perfect. Everybody does mistakes...If you hurt person , and you feel bad about that, you need to fix this as well as you can. And don' t repeat them!!!