Who think cooking is in the marriage contracts?

President Poster Joined: Aug 04, 2004 Posts: 189

Shame to all the girls who can’t cook, women are absolutely born to cook and wash dishes That's what men think, isn't it? I know of a couple who got divorced because his wife would not cook or do any of the household chores... Getting a woman to do that is wrong.. but cooking I think is an obligatory job for women.. I'm sure all you women out there agree Laughing

It is mandatory for a woman to cook for her husband, but it is something morally which a woman should do, but at the same time, it does not mean she is forced to do so… Laughing

okay for the girls who can't cook! goes off to find some house-husbands

What i think

this may sound really cheesy. but i wouldn't want my wifey to do anything like cooking and cleaning all the time… but men should clean to save their lives, so i wouldn't mind doing the cleaning.. cooking for me it is simple, i cook my own food and she cook her own food as well - NO confusion and everyone is happy Laughing

Average Poster Joined: Nov 29, 2004 Posts: 78

it is a great thing for a women to cook, and clean the house
but if she don't have the time, she and her husband can share the work.
like my mom work schdul is different from her hubby so he ccok and clean and than when she stays home she do the same. i know a women is not force to cook and clean, but when u gets married, is a whole nother story because u have to do those thing for ur home sake and to make the marriage work. America is a different place, but in the feature when i marry, i'm going to clean and cook for my husband and i 'm sure he will do the same too.

Posted: Fri Nov 10, 2006 7:05 am

We do things for each other out of love.
Women are better at caring for household chores (well most are)
Relationships and caring for the home should be about give and take.

Man and woman make a team, and as such they should work out
how they will help each other.

Virgin Poster Joined: Oct 22, 2006 Posts: 2

I think cooking is basic knowledge, but the know how of making cassava leaf and rice is in the contract!.....I was told ones that, back home, back in the old days, if men tried to make food or was ever seen in the kitchen by visiting neighbors, he was teased of being man-woman, and was laughed at, pure stupid......where are the good old days?

hey ladies, Theres nothing better than coming home from work and your wife has cooked u a nice meal - thats the best felling in the world if she didnt- well then i will take her 2 the best resturant in town and spend over 150 dollars just for the night. that way the next day she will make it up to me and cook for me.

Posted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 12:37 am

Wao Walker that's romantic and good use of physcology on her.

For real, cooking was always the woman's job. Problem is now,
women go out to work and well, you know what happens.

For me, I love to pamper my man, and welcome him home with
some Pounded yam and egusi (Nigerian food).
Nothing like a man going out and coming home from a hard days
work..watching him eat his dinner prepared with love. Smile

Average Poster Joined: Aug 13, 2006 Posts: 86

SisiPancake wrote:

Wao Walker that's romantic and good use of physcology on her.

For real, cooking was always the woman's job. Problem is now,
women go out to work and well, you know what happens.

For me, I love to pamper my man, and welcome him home with
some Pounded yam and egusi (Nigerian food).
Nothing like a man going out and coming home from a hard days
work..watching him eat his dinner prepared with love. Smile

Well, sisipancke, you did not just defined a wife. Now with that sincere love, you can get a man to do anything, trust me. You got the qualities that I will worship. Wink

Posted: Wed Nov 29, 2006 10:31 am

Stevoo
Me I love being in the kitchen. I know to some people they might find that strange. I know men love to be nurtured and cared for.
If he is not getting his food prepared in a loving atmosphere
there is always tension.
I know some women that just cook for sake of it, so He has something
to eat when he gets in.
There is hardly any thought and love added to the preparation of
the meal. Even when she serves him you can tell it's done half heartedly.
I hope I never get that way.

Average Poster Joined: Aug 13, 2006 Posts: 86

You are one in two million. Keep it up. Smile

Posted: Fri Dec 01, 2006 6:23 am

I was just thinking..
How come Our mothers and aunties in the village love cooking?
As soon as you reach home, they welcome us with food.
As soon as we enter the city you see how selfish some people
are. They don't want to share or make you feel welcome.

Women who don't care to nuture their Man, treat others the same
way. I have read somewhere that food and sharing meals with
love is an important part of bonding.
I really believe that!!!

Posted: Thu Mar 26, 2009 8:45 am

I know this is of no relevance sorta but I had to post it.......

"Whatever you give a woman, she's going to multiply.

If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby.

If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal.

If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart.

She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her.

So - if you give her any crap, you will receive a ton of BULLSHIT."

THEM NOT MY WORDS...NOW THAT I READ IT..DANG IT SOUNDS ANCIENT BUT YET FUNNY.........