I would like to hear from Women and Men......

Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 8:22 am

What is the whole theory on telling a man everything about you VS telling what you think is appropriate ?

I have done both and I did not like the outcome of either one of them. I really think it depends on the individual. If given to the wrong person can be used against you or when its the right person they use what has been told them to
get to know you better...I don't know.....

Tell me what you think.......

Virgin Poster Joined: Sep 05, 2006 Posts: 6

I think the actuality in that theroy is that one should use wisdom when sharing/telling anything.

Not only so your business is safe but when you tell of your past and things you have done, you invite that person to view you from an old slate its like taking a shower just to put on the same ole dirty clothes. it serves no purpose.

I think if you are conversating with a man/woman you should be mindfull of everything you say because the tounge is very powerful.

getting to know a person is not having to tell them EVERYTHING! be honest YES! but use wisdom in your honesty.

Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 7:40 am

BlackDi

I found this post and thought it worthy of revival.

When u meet someone, they want to know EVERYTHING.

We all have pasts and no where does it say you must

give an account of every person etc you have been with.

Somethings are personal and private and have no bearings

on our new loves relationship with us. Never be pressured

into revealing your past cos most times when you break up,

BAMMMMMMMMM they hit you with Your Past and spread

your business to anyone that will listen. They could even

use information you shared as a weapon against you,during

arguements.

So, no don't tell all!!!

Sisi Pancake

Posted: Sat Sep 30, 2006 12:47 am

Thank for the information............