DOES SIZE MATTER?

President Poster Joined: Mar 16, 2007 Posts: 140

Are ladies turned off/on by the size of a man`s manhood?

Forums Moderator Joined: May 18, 2005 Posts: 1023

Pencil thin............turn off....yes. Baseball bat.............turn off.........yes. It would be lying to say that size is not an issue, it is.

I believe the same thing holds true for guys too. Since there's no way of knowing (unless you're walking around with a ruler) you hope and pray that what ever he has.............he knows how to work it!

Cuz he could be well endowed and just hurt you with it; or not know how to satisfy a woman with or be inexperienced in pleasing a woman with a "tool" of that size!

This is my personal opinion and am entitled to "smoke" it! Laughing

Posted: Fri Apr 13, 2007 1:50 am

Wao Rina...you leave nothing out.
I do think tho that for some when
it is extra large then a woman could
be nervous. So it is down to the man
to reassure her and not ram her like
a Trojan. Instead do am gently o. Razz

President Poster Joined: Mar 16, 2007 Posts: 140

HOW STIMULATING AND REFRESHING Y´ALL REPLIES!

Forums Moderator Joined: May 18, 2005 Posts: 1023

LOL.............I figure we're all adults, and can discuss something as "lite" as size. Laughing

:lol

When I first read the thread, I was amazed no one had responded; so I decided to go ahead and be the "bad girl" and post.

But it's true that, there are alot of men out there who think that because they have a "third" foot, that makes them Casanova. Forget about foreplay and any other form of stimulation. Shocked

P.S. To the inexperienced, the Trojan she referred to in her post, was the horse and not the condom! Laughing

I couldn't resist!

Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 2:25 am

roflol

O boyyyyyyyyyyy trouble in the house!!!!

President Poster Joined: Mar 16, 2007 Posts: 140

Thanks,gal, for reminding our kind folks that this is a forum 4 adults.This should be a no -topic- barred forum, with self-restrain as our guide.Thanks 4 been articulate and stating the obvious.

Forums Moderator Joined: May 18, 2005 Posts: 1023

Touche

Posted: Thu Apr 26, 2007 3:19 am

Nah its more swagger and knowing what to do for the right spots

Forums Moderator Joined: May 18, 2005 Posts: 1023

Not every man, well endowed or not, know about the "right spots". And some may argue that it is the woman's responsibility to teach her man.

Well............you know when you show "some" men what to do or how to do it(in bed)...............it raises a question in their minds as to your morales.

A man will have to be very mature(has nothing to do with age) and open-minded to receive some sexual coaching! Laughing

Since you mentioned "swagger" and "right spots" loveb4sex, I'm gonna make some assumptions; Wink

how would you handle your woman's reluctance or trepidation?

Average Poster Joined: Jun 28, 2007 Posts: 54

Size does matter. Lucky for us- 'scientists' have come to determine that anything below 4.5 inches is considered small and anything above 7.5 inches is considered 'endowed'.

Normally a woman will be a little downcast if her partner is below average and slightly alarmed if he's packed like a horse. However, a man can only be seen as a good lover (size withstanding) if he knows how to pleasure a woman fully- I'm not talking bout just hitting 'the right spots'.

Is he knowledgeable in the art of oral sex (some men AND women still find this subject either a taboo or an uncomfortable area)

Is he proficient in the art of sex (positions, foreplay)

Does he come to the bedroom with cultural, religious, individual bias?

Why is great for a woman to show a man how she wants to be pleased, there are many, many women out there who out of fear of being labelled as you-know-what may not speak out. Some don't even know how they want to be pleasured.

Like Rina said, sex should be seen and undertaken with an opened mind. Anything else is allowing oneself to be short changed.

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You know all the "noise" about "positions" and changing them can be a little bit of a "put off". I mean when you've gotten into the groove of the act; here comes some gymnastics! Shocked

I want pleasure, not to be flipped like a pancake; let's leave the acrobatics for the gym. Laughing

And I understand that I may be old fashioned, but honestly, ladies; how many of us really enjoy the constant interruptions to change positions?

And do guys really enjoy it? Or is it just a means of showing off? I mean really! If you've gotten me in bed, there's no longer a need to impress!! Laughing

At that point, I'm either madly in love or too consumed by lust to care. C'mon ladies let's be honest.

Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2007 5:30 am

It takes 2 to tango. You might fancy something he does not.
Yet he is willing to let you do your thing. And so should us
ladies be.
Having said that.. it is all about what both of you want in bed
at any given moment.
No two couples are identical so it is back to what you both want,
not what other people say.

Average Poster Joined: Jun 28, 2007 Posts: 54

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You know all the "noise" about "positions" and changing them can be a little bit of a "put off". I mean when you've gotten into the groove of the act; here comes some gymnastics! Shocked Shocked

I want pleasure, not to be flipped like a pancake; let's leave the acrobatics for the gym. Laughing Laughing

And I understand that I may be old fashioned, but honestly, ladies; how many of us really enjoy the constant interruptions to change positions?

And do guys really enjoy it? Or is it just a means of showing off? I mean really! If you've gotten me in bed, there's no longer a need to impress!! Laughing Laughing Laughing At that point, I'm either madly in love or too consumed by lust to care. C'mon ladies let's be honest.

Guurrrlll.................

To each its own they say but c'mon now- no matter how 'madly in love' you are with your partner if he ain't got no skillz in the bedroom, it'll hamper the relationship somewhat. Don't tell me it ain't so.

Positions vary according to one's tastes- they can either be during copulation or 'rounds'. The thing is variety is the spice of life. Personally, I'd hate the monotony of a particular position throughout.

Being old fashioned is nothing to be ashamed or apologetic for, nor is being a freak. [/quote] Wink

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I'm talking about within a single "round".

I think if I can be honest, the constant change, even when I was younger and thought I knew it all, was always............. Confused

I think for me what makes the "act" meaningful is the eye contact. It is so intoxicating to see the pleasure you get from our union.

I think there's a bit of "freak" in all of us. Just comes out in different ways! Cool

No.... he's gotta have some skills, but I don't want to experience all of them in one "round"; save a 'lil something for later. Know what I mean?